Archive for May, 2007

sugar rush aborted

What’s the sane-st thing to do when you are dead bored sitting in an igloo office, sleepy and tired resulting from sleepless night without proper a/c, having to wake up so many times to change kid’s clothes and own?

Go buy, nibble, gobble, linger on a chocolate.

So I hit the choc button in my keyboard and went out. I had no choice. The office was too cold, work load was too heavy, I needed some fresh air and unbelievably longing for the warmth of the sun. On my way to the elevator, I met the chummy lady working in the same building. It has been more than a couple of months since I last saw her. I stopped for a chat.

She told me I’ve lost some weight. Reader comments with phrases of objection will be deleted ;-P

Hey, I did not pay her to say that! I did not solicit her opinion and she said the magic words!! For someone who has been struggling to go back to her pre-baby weight, whatever that weight was, the words were more than enough to make my day. It was also a wakeup call. Just in time when I was about to buy sweets and put on some grams. Hey, I am no Nicole Richie so these are no exagerrated thoughts.

I still went out. Got to see some sun but didn’t buy my browns. It would melt on my way back, anyway.

birthday greetings

Happy birthday to one fabulous person I have never even met yet but I know is absolutely a:

Happy Birthday Melany! May you have many more birthdays to come. I will see you and your boys some day when fate brings me to South Africa!!

what now?

 Early mornings at the beach is also a very enticing option for families with kids. Who can resist the crystal clear waters and the cool wind blowing in your face?

Here in Satan’s sauna, the temperature-controlled malls are always haven. But since we are not really mall-goers and the outdoor park is out of the question, to the sandy shores we head. Now the uninvited is spotted at the beach where we always used to go. I wonder what will happen to our social life now…

the new miss universe

 Ms. Japan Riyo Mori (???) was crowned the new Miss Universe yesterday in Mexico. She is the 2nd to win the crown for the country after 48 years! I wouldn’t be surprised if whole of Japan is going gaga this very minute.

Here’s an attempt to write an entry in Japanese for my friends in Japan who are reading this blog and wishes I write in Nihongo. Were you able to watch the show? Was she really great? If I can recall, the last time I watched the Miss Universe pageant was more than 10 years ago already. Tsk, tsk, I used to watch it every year before.

it’s too cold, dammit

Somebody is playing with the aircon switch again. I was the first one who arrived at the office at 8 am today and took the liberty to turn on the lights and of course, the airconditioning system. Set the a/c at 20C, that should be more than enough given that it is more than 35C outside.

All was well and good until a few hours after the colleagues arrived. Sudden cold spells made made my body shiver and my fingers pale and hard. Looks like someone is here to destroy mother earth. When I looked at the a/c setting, it was 14C. How cruel is that!

Imagine feeling like it is late autumn/early winter in the middle of the desert summer season. So unnatural, so annoying.

streetwalking surprises

Despite the unrelenting efforts of authorities to fight the strange scenario of streetwalkers plying their illegal trade on the streets of the cosmopolitan desert nation, the world’s oldest profession is still at large.

There isn’t a day while walking to/from work when I don’t encounter a guy stopping his car in front of me and suggesting something. During my first few weeks, I was confused, scared (they don’t force you to get in, though) and angry (do I look like I am selling my ware?!). I stop and look at myself if I missed a button in my shirt or I forgot to zip my fly. They say the heat can make dogs go crazy but I am still functional, thank you– I am dressing decently and covering the necessary, buttons and zips intact.

The highly conservative society, the number of males outnumbering the females exponentially — 20 males to 1 female, these creates the demand for prostitution. Mind you, demand for anything can be created — toothpicks, nail polish, toilet paper…

To be astutely graphic, the prostitution situation in Dubai is a case of supply fitting the demand. And surprise, surprise, these brazen lasses don’t even necessarily bother with safe sex and continues to pose a serious health risk. Stupid but not stupid enough as the men who do not care protecting themselves or the wives and girlfriends they later transmit their nasties to.

I think it is pragmatic to realize that the problem will never go away. It has been there before, it is here now and it will definitely stay. I believe that when it comes to sex, anyone would be stupid to venture without cover. It is better for all concerned that it be open. Safety is paramount. No balloons, no party!

While some years ago the sleazy streetwalkers are confined in one area, most parts of the city now had become famous pickup points. Prostitution being illegal here, the needy won’t know which is the right candidate unless they stop and ask, literally!


Four months ago, I would flare up, disgusted and gruntling. Now, I just ignore them and sign them to fuck off go away and they are so polite to just speed off while on the lookout for someone else.

reaching the skies

Didn’t you ever stop and think that we are going back to the ancient times?

I mean, really ancient times like during that time in the Bible. Particularly, people inspite of having/using different languages opt to have a one universal language then the united humanity builds towers or multi-storeyed ziggurat to reach the heavens.

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The classic story from the Old Testament of the Bible - Tower of Babel doesn’t ring a bell?

*Photo taken from Gulf News.

revelations through art

It’s good to have a full two-days rest. I took a break last Thursday to attend Pristine’s Art Festival in her school. Then of course I had the usual Friday break. What a difference a two-day vacation made.

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Left: entrance to the school; Right: Scenes from the park - a drawing using KG1 children’s fingers soaked with paint

It is also my mother’s first time to visit my daughter at school. By her standard, children sent to school at a tender age of three is almost unacceptable…she thinks it is too early! My mom was a stay at home mom for so many years until her sixth child, my youngest sister finished high school so I can understand her predicament of thinking I am skipping some mothering duties by sending my daughter to school very early.

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Left: Mom and daughter; Right: Pristine with her bestfriend

But when she expected to see her grand daughter sober, crying and tired at school, what she saw was very far from it! Pristine is so happy and lively at school, in the company of her friends. She has too much energy, her teacher told us, it would be a waste to confine her to the four corners of our house doing nothing.

Anyway, I was so amazed at her artwork. Was it just yesterday when all she could manage were straight lines with uneven strokes?

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Left: Pristine’s work using her fingers; Right: KG1 class drawings - my daughter is the youngest in her class. Amazing to note that as children grow older, the more they use colors and experiment with them.

 They were given aprons and paint in assorted colors and given ample time to make something out of the theme: “My Family”. If I had known this before, I would have freaked out with the thought, “what would she imagine us, her family, to be?”. Here is what she came up with:

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From Left: My daughter’s perception of “Family”; the budding artist proudly pointing her masterpiece; making poses

I am so glad there are no monster faces here. It appears to be, she perceived her family to be together, the three of us present in her drawing, and smiling!! Never mind we are all bald and I have a yellow face and a huge nose!! Hubby laughed but he stopped when I pointed out he looks like Smurf with that blue face, lol!

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Drawings from her friends of the same KG1 class

See the other drawings from her friends? Some of the children did not include their fathers in their artwork, with the people objects having long hair, clearly pointing to the mother and sister or the female member of the household. Most of the children who only depicted the female present are Japanese children whose fathers do not come home before bedtime due to overtime, tsk, tsk. If we had stayed in Japan, no doubt our daughter would have painted the same way. I am glad she included her father in her artwork. Hubby is so pleased, he almost cried!!

Oh my, I am musing a lot about this small event. Forgive me, I am just a mom. Drawings of children can be so moving because they are often so explicit. It shows their true emotions and their honest perception of the world around them.

songs when…

I read an interesting entry by Bee and I am voluntarily tagging myself. Here goes…and tag yourself if you like!

1. Go to www.popculturemadness.com
2. Pick the year you turned 18
3. Get yourself nostalgic over the song’s of the year
4. Write something about how the song affected you
5. Pass it on to 5 more friends

And now, here are the songs that hit the charts when I was 18! You figure out what year this is and my age, eventually.

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  • Hero - Mariah Carey (I want her voice!)
  • All For Love - Bran Adams/RodStewart/Sting (they’re hot even they are granpas already)
  • Power of Love - Celine Dion (the power of her voice!!)
  • The Sign - Ace of Base (I used to dance to this, alot!)
  • Bump N’ Grind - R. Kelly (I don’t know this song)
  • I Swear - All-4-One (One of the songs during my wedding)
  • Stay (I Missed You) - Lisa Loeb (A karaoke fave of mine)
  • I’ll Make Love To You - Boyz II Men (love this song)
  • On Bended Knee - Boyz II Men (love this too..who hates Boyz II Men and their songs anyway?)

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So did that make you nostalgic or what? Or don’t tell me you don’t know these songs…what, you were born yesterday? =p

summer and makeup don’t mix

My lipstick can last up to 10 years. I am keeping at least 3 colors but rarely use them especially if I have to send off my daughter to school in the morning. Before I hand her over to the bus attendant, she is showered with mommy kisses so I purposely don’t wear my lipstick until I am inside the bus or inside the office. I don’t want her to have lipstick smear all over her face as well as I can’t stand not kissing my baby as I will be missing her, after-all, we will not see each other in another twelve long hours.

Lately, I don’t wear any makeup at all. What’s the point anyway? I am already beautiful without it, haha. Sweltering heat and humidity can wreak havoc with summer makeup. Foundation may seem to melt or liquefy, and no powder stands up to those little beads of sweat that collect around my hairline!

How do you survive summer? Is going au naturel the only way to it?