Archive for February, 2008

spreading like a virus

Claudia tagged me with this cool (Technorati score enhancing) meme.

Rule #1: Copy all the links below and replace a single link under the appropriate letter of the alphabet. If your domain name, or even the title of your blog, starts with an “A,” you’d replace the link under that letter and put the replaced link at the bottom. Also, don’t forget to credit the tagger, or where you got the list from, at the end of the list with a full URL of the post so that a pingback gets generated.

1. A. acowboyswife.com

2. B. bloggingcents.com

3. C. caffeine-overload.com

4. D. DadThing.com

5. E. everyday-kindness.com

6. F. forumfinder.net

7. G. GeekMomMashup

8. H. happykeg.com

9. I. ipentimento.com

10. J. juliesjournal.com

11. K. kabalyero.com

12. L. ladylike4.com

13. M.my 3 boys and i

14. N. notjustmama.net

15. O. On-A-Limb.com

16. P. peapodsquadstuff.com

17. Q. qweddings.com

18. R. rowdigrl.com

19. S. sandierpastures.com

20. T. thesocalledme.net

21. U. utada-online.net

22. V. valmg.com

23. W. wiredfornoise.com

24. X. xaviermedia.com

25. Y. yimto.com

26. Z. zbudapest.com

Replaced link: SheBecameAButterfly.net

Previous tagger: On-A-Limb.com

Rule #2: You now have to “tag” at least five people and encourage them to participate so that this thing spreads like a virus.

I am tagging bloggers who participated in the previous contests here in my blog:

  1. Mommy Cracked
  2. Peek-a-boo Jack
  3. The Rock Pile
  4. Keep up with the Smiths
  5. Raindrops & Rainbows

And all of you who wants to do this!

Thursday Thirteen #33

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13 THINGS THAT HAPPEN IF YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED ACCESS TO THE INTERNET WHILE AT WORK, EVEN ON LUNCH BREAK

1. You become restless.

2. You wonder what is happening in the outside world. I’m an information junkie and not seeing the news for the whole day makes me really weary, not to mention terribly bored during lunch break.

3. You’ll be missing friend’s blogs, and can’t wait to get home to read and comment.

4. You get reacquainted with Solitaire.

5. You develop the ability to clear mine sweeper in 10 seconds (restlessness causes sudden lucky finger reflexes).

6. You master Spider Solitaire, a game you have never touched your whole life until now, in only 30 minutes.

7. You learn to hate notepad because there is no PUBLISH button after you write a blog post.

8. You become the queen of organization and plan vacations months early, carefully detailing things to do and clothes to wear.

9. You start to think about looking for work somewhere else — a lot.

10. You plan carefully what to do online later at home for a meager two hours, 10-11pm and 5-6am. Keeping a list of tasks is essential. No more stumbling upons (the channel-flicking net style tool), no more hollywood gossip articles!

11. You realize that two hours feels like two seconds once online.

12. You think of buying a PDA/business phone that is WIFI able to be able to relieve yourself of extreme tension during spare time at work.

13. You start to cook up some ideas how to save for that PDA and how long will it take. 

I am sure this made an impression that I am not working at all and just doing internet in the office.  :!: No, I am working of course, but my working schedule allows me to have some free times later in the day because of time difference (I closely coordinate with Japan and I can’t do anything when it’s late at night there) and on Saturdays and Sundays when I have to work in this part of the world and the office there is closed. And of course, there’s lunch break. Think about sudden no news reading when this is what you do during lunch break for years and years. Is this enough to explain myself? :oops: 

no delivery for me

This is not a birthing story.

Almost all the restaurants here in Dubai offer home delivery service saying they’ll deliver ANYWHERE and by anywhere I am not sure if they really thought about traffic and freshness of food as it arrives on the customer’s doorsteps.

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I do not prefer home delivery because of only one reason: safety. This is of course a very personal reason. I mean, there is nothing wrong with having your food delivered at the comfort of your house - - we have had pizzas and fried chicken delivered to our home when we were still in Japan. But here? I could not imagine the risk that these delivery men face just to get the food warm when they ring our bell. I have witnessed a couple of accidents on the road with bikes and motorcycles. One accident heavily traumatized me when I saw one delivery man being hurled up so high in the air after a Pajero bumped him from behind. When he and his motorcycle landed, it was not only cola that spilled on the road, there was blood. Too much.

Who knows right at this very minute a restaurant is taking a home delivery order and sending off someone out there in the treacherous road, in a motorcycle, without seat belts and practically nothing to protect him. I know accidents happen all the time but I just don’t want to live in the thought that a man died just to deliver my fried chicken.

the new bridge thrill

My mother saw an article featured in Yahoo News regarding the new arch bridge to be built in Dubai starting this March. The article had some new images of the what would be longest arch bridge in the world:

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Looks really fantastic, don’t you think?

My mom looked at the photo with knitted eyebrows and said, “That is scary. Do you mean cars have to go up and down when crossing the bridge?”

Huh? up and down? What made you think like that? I asked her. “Well look at that roller coaster-like form!”

She was not joking. I had to stand up and look for her eyeglasses.

Time for blog awards again

It’s that time again to thank some bloggers who showered me with some blog blings recently. You all make blogging more inspiring!

Kailani of An Island Life has given me this:

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Kailani lives in another side of the world, in one of the beautiful islands of Hawaii. If not for blogging, I would not have met her. Thanks for the cool award. Mahalo, Kailani! Now I pass this award to:

  • Stacey, who blogs from a cruise ship and updates the blogosphere with photos of her stopovers in many, many different countries around the world. I am so excited to see you soon in Dubai!
  • Robin, who blogs from Israel providing me with a view to a different world.
  • Michelle (Scribbit), who blogs from Alaska posting photos of the great white north and great mommy articles.
  • Michelle (Sognatrice), blogging from scenic Calabria, Italy. Beautiful place, beautiful blog.
  • Nat, who is posting very nice photos of Japan, the country I call “home”.

Jennifer of Diary of 1 has gifted me on Valentine’s Day with something better than chocolate and most importantly, with zero calories:

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Jennifer is another excellent blogger from Oregon who I had the pleasure to know through how else but blogging. If you are a lover of arts, you should check out her blog.

I had been blogging for just a year and never really expected this! Thank you so much, Jen.

This award I will pass on to excellent bloggers I know: Karen, Robin, Sarah, Michelle (Sognatrice), Claudia, Sheira, Harlekwin (thanks for the superb T13 banners!), Desert Songbird, Frank, MakiMeji Mamah, Christine, Cajun Vegan

*****

Charlotte of Charmed Life has given me:

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Charlotte and I had been friends since we were both working in Japan. We have since got married and had babies and still managed to stay in touch although we’re miles and miles apart. I am definitely seeing her and her cute little boy Matthew in summer on our vacation to Japan.

Thanks for being a friend: Sandra, Kailani, Melany, Jennifer, Maribeth, Sabine

*****

Robin of Around the Island gave me:

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I forgot how stumbled into Robin’s blog but I’m glad I did. She blogs from Israel and although we are from the same region, the place and culture is so much different. I am glad to take a peek of her world through her blog. Oh, she makes my day just by being there always. Thanks, Robin.

All the blogs in my feeder makes my day so if you are frequent here in my blog, please consider yourself awarded. Keep on writing, you all make my day! This award also goes especially to Cathi. Thanks Cathi for making my day with Valentine goodies!

*****

Dragonstar Days gave me a totally new award. I say new because unlike the previous four awards mentioned above, I have never seen this before:

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Well, what can I say, I’ve never been told ‘cool’ and ‘cat’ so this is a double celebration for me! Thank you!

I pass this award to cat lovers who visits this blog: Dragonheart and Merlin, Gandalf and Grayson, Lara Chronicles

my sweet valentine

It was just another day at the office. It’s Saturday and I am back working with minimal things to do and with very limited (I can only check mails; this post is written at home) internet access, I was terribly bored thinking of lots of (bloggy) things but could not post any.

The mailman came and tapped my shoulders. He had a parcel for me!

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Oh my God, is all I can say when I opened the package from my Valentine Goody Swap partner, Cathi. My Valentine’s have never been better! Cathi just hit the spot by sending me chocolates that are not just chocolates; she sent me my favorite Lindt chocolates among others she put in the box too! Thanks, Cathi! I hope you get my package too, soon!Now I really feel bad because I am not sure when she’ll get mine. I mailed it a week before Valentines but the parcel came back to me after five days for undisclosed reason. It must be the red heart-shaped box that Emirates Post did not like so I had to repack it and send it over again — after Valentine’s! 

Watch out for the empty cereal box wrapped around with lots of packing tape, Cathi! I hope you like it.

Saturday Photo Scavenger Hunt - Wooden

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This week’s theme: Wooden

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Dutch dike and garden wooden shoes at Keukenhof Gardens, Lisse, The Netherlands.

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See them in fancy colors!

The Sky Isn’t Visible From Here

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Author: Felicia C. Sullivan

Hardcover: 255 pages

Publisher: Algonquin Books (February 5, 2008)

Language: English

ISBN-10: 1565125150

ISBN-13: 978-1565125155

 

Even without Mother Talk asking me to review this book, I was inspired to write a review as soon as I finished the last page.

The Sky Isn’t Visible from Here: Scenes from a Life is author Felicia Sullivan’s first book. It is a powerful memoir, a true recollection of life scenes she experienced growing up in the rough neighborhood of Brooklyn without someone to protect her other than herself. At a young age, she was her mother’s keeper other than what normally would be the other way around. At the same age, while I was going to school and enjoying my youth, Felicia had to take her mother to the hospital when she overdosed, conspire for her to steal or put up with her numerous stepfathers.

As a mother myself, I never ceased to wonder how a mother can do so much to her child. How a mother can love herself more. Isn’t a mother and daughter relationship or any among family members should be of love unconditional? I had so many questions while reading the book including going back to the first page to check if this was fiction. I wished it was fiction, especially for Felicia.

The book is written raw and straight, one could get the picture so well. In fact, I had most of the breath taking scenes playing in my mind as I turned it page after page. Felicia Sullivan’s book offers a direct and empowering perspective of love that should be shared by mother and daughters, or the lack of it. Compelling topics include accounts of addiction, alcohol dependency and the life in the dark streets of Brooklyn. A powerful book, one that would make you wonder how one child survived the emotional, physical and verbal abuse and still go on finish college, be a writer or simply go on with her life.

My mother also read the book and we are talking about the story almost everyday at home. We are touched and inspired by the book and appreciated what we have right now, a seemingly normal and loving mother and daughter relationship, despite some occasional disagreements. We will be passing this book to my sister.

If you haven’t read this book, I highly recommend it. Read it and see how you’ll appreciate the mother you have in your side right now, no matter how she nags at about almost everything in your life. All in all, a great memoir, something that would linger in your memories for some time.

One last note, Felicia and her mother have not seen each other for years but with all the raves and reviews of this book and the effectivitiy of blogs as information mediums, it could be possible that her estranged mom is somewhere reading her daughter’s memoir right now. It could even be possible that she would just appear one day. I guess I just have to check Felicia’s blog every now and then.

Thursday Thirteen #32

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13 MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT DUBAI

1. Alcohol- While so many tourists think that they’ll dry up in Dubai, alcohol is widely available at many bars, restaurants, hotels and leisure clubs. You can also purchase alcohol by applying for a liquor license (takes less than 10 mins to do so).

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2. Dress Code - Contrary to other Islamic cities/countries, Dubai has an extremely relaxed tolerant outlook in relation to western fashion and generally has a relaxed attitude to dress code. Women don’t need to cover their heads or wear black gowns. A little social problem has occurred though as the number of expats roaming in the malls with too much skin exposure is increasing.

3. Language - When in Japan, it is critical to learn Japanese but here in Dubai, English is widely spoken by the expat community which comprise of more than 80% of the population. Arabic, however is taught in private schools as a foreign language.

4. Rain - Most tourists want go home looking healthy with a lasting golden tan and while Dubai is sunny pretty much all year round, it rains during the month of December-January. This year, we had so much of rain in a day that what would have been in 5 years!

5. Desert - Considering that Dubai grew out of the desert, visitors may be surprised by the many lush and lovingly tended green areas around the city.

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~ Safa Park, Dubai: one of the numerous parks with lush vegetation ~

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~ Aerial view of Dubai Creekside park ~

6. Crime - When you hear Middle East, crime and violence rings a bell but Dubai has one of the lowest crime rates in the world. It is very safe to walk alone at night, even for females.

7. Religion - Islam is the main religion but other religions are freely practiced in this diverse city. The ruler of Dubai even donated to build the Catholic Church (which is situated right next to a mosque!).

8. Pork- Pork is prohibited in the Islamic diet but pork and pork products are readily available in some supermarkets. If you are in Dubai and looking for pork, go to Al Maya at Reef Mall, Sunrise Supermarket chains, Spinney’s in Al Ghurair City.

9. Modernity- Dubai has the impression that there is nothing older than cheese. This is after all a very new city, with modern facilities and countless new buildings rising from the sand every single day. But  in the Deira part of the creek you can find Dubai’s rich history.

  • Sheikh Saeed Al Maktoum House - Built in 1896 from coral covered in lime and sand was the house of the grandfather of the current ruler and has now been turned into a museum with photographs depicting the history of Dubai.
  • Heritage and Diving Villages- Heritage Village incorporates a small museum displaying ancient artifacts from several archaelogical sites dating back to 550 BC. The Village also sells traditional crafts, pottery, woven goods and Bedouin jewellery.
    The Diving Village displayes historical features on what was once the major industry of Dubai, pearl diving.
  • Bastakiya Quarter - You can find the architecture of the traditional courtyard houses which dates back to the end of the 19th century.
  • Al Fahidi Fort and Dubai Museum - The main attraction in the district of Bur Dubai, the fort is build in the late 18th century. It has been, in the past, a seat of government, the ruler’s main residence, a military barrack and prison.

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10. Mosques- Islamic mosques do not allow entry to non-muslims. One mosque begs to differ. Jumeirah mosque situated in Jumeirah beach road in Dubai is the only place of worship that non-muslims are allowed to enter. The Sheikh Mohammed Centre for Cultural Understanding books organised tours every Saturday, Sunday, Tuesday and Thursday at 10 am.

11.Activities - Have you heard of the Dubai Desert Classic where Tiger Woods swings his club every year since 2001? or the Dubai Tennis Open or the most expensive (in terms of prize money) Dubai marathon? All of which are held in Dubai.

  • Dubai Desert Classic - The finest golfers in the world make the trip to Dubai every year for this $2.2 million tournament. Over the years, the Desert Classic has become and important part of the Dubai social season.
  • The Dubai Tennis Championships - attracts the world’s best player ever year. Great facilities, perfect weather

12. Food - Never think you’ll be only eating dates and olives all throughout your stay in Dubai. It is very likely that you can find restaurants from different countries all over the world in the city of Dubai.

13. Nightlife - Don’t ever think it doesn’t exist here just because I haven’t written anything about it in this blog. It’s just that I haven’t been to one. Holidays in Dubai don’t end with the sun going down. There is an energetic and cosmopolitan feels about many different nightspots that Dubai has to offer. Most clubs are open until 3am.

plates more expensive than cars

They did it again. License plate No 1 broke the world record as the most expensive car number plate, with a price tag of Dh52.2 million (US$14.5 million) in an intense bidding in Abu Dhabi last week.The buyer broke the record by paying more than twice the previous record which went to plate No 5 and is owned by his cousin, also a prominent businessman. The money generated will be used to establish a specialised hospital in Abu Dhabi. The proceeds of the auction are said to go to charity so I guess the buyer is hitting two birds with one stone. A contribution to charity and a special plate to boot.

A number plate for a more than a million dollars. Wow, I wonder if it’s really worth it?

Note: The Maserati MC12 Corsa is the most expensive car in the world costing Dh9.78 million(US$2.8 million) .